Anushka Arapada

 Myself Anushka,                         Got busy with my college lately, caught up soo many emotions, thoughts, doubts, fear and what not until I recollected that I-do-write. Which brings me here to write for a simple reflection from a number of happenings. If I ask you a certain question, what would you choose 'MONEY or KNOWLEDGE' with reference to your career. Now, lets break down your answers, if you fall under the category of choosing 'money', I assume you are not one of those for whom having cognition level is necessary, for such people, they have to be capable enough of having the skillset to fix in any work environment. So that they can start working at an early stage and make money of their own. This attempt gives a very good boost start to your career, you have experiences, strong grasping ability, optimistic attitude to work with what takes your interest, so overall you have a great start. Now the another quota,...

 Myself Anushka ,                       Existing among people is quite challenging when you don't have a control over your emotions. This thought came to my mind when I experienced such situations around me. Now, there are two people, one agrees with other's preference and the other one puts his own implication, even if he's not asked for it. Imagine a scenario, where you are showing something you like and the audience directly cuts you out with a nullifying statement, you weren't even asking for their opinion. I know, it feels distressed! That is how your mood gets ruined, the person who did this won't even realize. This puts a damper on your day and even wrecks the image of that guy for you. Ever experienced a situation, when you're in a great mood and someone explodes with anger on you? Again, i know how it feels.                        These are the little things w...

Myself Anushka,               After taking a good break, I realized that we are the main character of our lives and we should live for ourself not anybody else. People around us are hypercritical, they'll judge us for whatever we do, and they'll also do the same if we perform as per their desire. So, it's better to get criticized by atleast by doing what we want from life. All of us have individual dreams and goals, everyone of us is on their way to achieve something at this point of time, however such people hinder our journey. It is better if we start focusing only on our goals, besides it would be completely normal of you detach form such people, this will make your day hundred times better and positive to be honest. This is what I felt when I did the same, I made new, resourceful, healthy minded friends and these folks are helping me to grow on a visible scale. On the other hand, I would be selfish in the picture of the people whom I left behind bu...

 Myself Anushka, Let's talk about surviving among people and situations around us. We, as youth are surrounded by a good mixture of people affecting our minds and bodies, either directly or indirectly. We live in a society where we have to be socially active as a basic human need. Every person's behavior effects our mind, turns out effecting our body language. People's behavior towards us may be positive, negative, neutral, competitive, protective, aggressive or can be any other. The aura transmitted by them effects our mind enormously. For being yourself, originally the person how you are, being pure and having a stable mindset is highly recommended. If you have ever been observant about your behavior and your thoughts before and after meeting somebody, your friends, colleagues, family, relatives, co-workers or who-so-ever, you might feel a change of energy, change in thoughts and your attitude towards them. This outcome may turn into several emotions and thoughts towards ...

 Myself Anushka, A couple of days back, I was anxious about the aura of my home, when someone asked me if I could change everyone's thoughts? I simply denied as I couldn't, it clearly meant the only solution was to  accept the situation. When we don't like somebody to be precise, we aren't comfortable with their presence, with the energy they share with us, the aura they radiate, our mind starts disliking those people. Now, there are some people you have to deal with and you aren't left with any option. Similarly, there are certain situations which you can't change within a short span of time and you have to accept it. If I talk a little spiritual, whatever is happening is for a reason, god has made a plan for all of us and accepting it happily will make your life easy. For example, you are working at a place with a manager you dislike but you have no choice as you have to work there for a certain period of time, take it an internship. What can be the outcome of...

 Myself Anushka  Got a random thought one night when i wasn't asleep, staring at the ceiling when my conscious mind thought of this question. Why do we offer plucked, fresh and healthy flowers to god and not those fresh and healthy flowers which fell on ground just a few seconds ago, once when fallen on the ground flowers are considered unfit to offer god. It's a kind of spiritual thought I wanted to ask somebody, since my grandparents left me, I don't have enough enlightened folks around me to give me a proper answer about this. I read somewhere, a soul takes 8.4 million births before taking their final birth as a human being. Liberation is only possible through human bodies as they are the smartest one. So, further strengthening my question, I come to another part of this, do we have a right to destroy a life? By plucking a flower from tree and destroying it's life, offering it to god, are we doing the right thing by being a mediator between that soul and god? When I ...