Afterall, It's for you!

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Myself Anushka,

              After taking a good break, I realized that we are the main character of our lives and we should live for ourself not anybody else. People around us are hypercritical, they'll judge us for whatever we do, and they'll also do the same if we perform as per their desire. So, it's better to get criticized by atleast by doing what we want from life. All of us have individual dreams and goals, everyone of us is on their way to achieve something at this point of time, however such people hinder our journey. It is better if we start focusing only on our goals, besides it would be completely normal of you detach form such people, this will make your day hundred times better and positive to be honest. This is what I felt when I did the same, I made new, resourceful, healthy minded friends and these folks are helping me to grow on a visible scale. On the other hand, I would be selfish in the picture of the people whom I left behind but after all, it was for me and now it is for you. Well it does not mean I'm not friends with them any more, I am, but not what I was before. What I want to say is, if people distract you, you're not comfortable with them or you feel they are competitive, judgmental or you are not sure about them, it is a negative sign . There is nothing wrong in leaving them behind and moving ahead in your life. Grow up! being an absent friend is not bad at all, your dreams are waiting for you. Just leave them behind and move ahead, I hope it would change your and their mindset as well. All the best!

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